It is risky. The two of us talked out every scenariou we could think of, including the ones that go wrong. Used to use Craigslist to find men (it's dead for that now), hubby did all of that, now have a fairly decent list of sometimes availables if we ever do it again. Embarrased and shy comes with the territory, as does getting over it.
How do some of you talk to you wife or husband about having sex with another person? Are you ever embarrassed or shy about talking in serious way in doing that? How do you find another man or woman to share with your spouse? It seems risky.
If you don’t want her to cheat share her